Losing your virginity is a big deal. It's not uncommon to have all sorts of romantic and exciting fantasies of how your first time will play out. But for most people, the reality is that their first time having sex was less than perfect. It makes sense that with lack of experience, nerves, and some pretty skewed views of what sex actually looks like, that people's first times are usually not so great or not what they expected. Reddit users shared some of their awkward, funny, and downright embarrassing stories about losing their virginity. Of course, these examples of first times are just for fun, as we can't independently authenticate the stories.
1. It took seven attempts and 16 hours.
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You might have heard that it's possible to bleed after having sex. It might sound kind of freaky, but it can actually be pretty normal. If you just had penetrative sex for the first time, you might have stretched or torn your hymen, which is the thin band of tissue at the opening of your vagina. If this is the case for you, you're probably spotting bleeding lightly. The blood will be bright red, even if your period blood is typically darker than that. It's also possible to bleed from tiny lacerations cuts in or around your vagina, even if you've had sex before, or if you've been fingered or were using a sex toy.
2. They were caught by a cop.
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Thanks to thee unrealistic standards constantly portrayed in media , we've all built up this imaginary idea of what sex is supposed to be like. Some people expect a romantic night of candles and passion, while others think it will be the most pleasure they've ever felt in their whole life. But the truth is, everyone's experience is different.