I do not want to see or have him with other people, but he does on my side. You expect monogamy from him. So setting aside the commitment you got and still want And you would have to be in control of who the other man is, how fast you move, etc. But this would have to be something you wanted and were comfortable with if you decided to move from fantasizing about it to actualizing it. And you've already taken a baby step or two in that direction. The reality may differ from his fantasy—which is why you need to move slowly, if, again, you decide to move on this at all. And the needs and wants of the other man, if and when you find one, have to be factored in as well.
For many women, achieving a healthy, happy marriage and the life that comes with it is, in itself, the ultimate fantasy. But unlike other fantasies, this is also a goal that many women actually strive to achieve. But nothing could be further from the truth! Our mission at Male Ambition is to help men to achieve greatness in all aspects of life —but we are especially interested in seeing men achieve greater success in their relationships. And marriage is perhaps the most complicated kind of relationship. It involves two people getting together and vowing to stay together long-term. But when it comes to sex, this can become a challenge. They are enticed by what they are not currently experiencing, and daydream about the forbidden fruit on the other side. Many people might feel like this describes men more so than women —but the truth is actually quite different. Women fantasize just as much as men do , if not even more so.
Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this. Fantasies are fun to have but not always fun to act out. And some fantasies just should never be shared with others not even your wife or husband. In fact, Jamie is now really freaked out and doesn't want to be in the same room with her best friend and husband for fear that things will get too weird for her wondering what's going on in her Chris's head. Tough one. I'll let Jamie explain the situation. About two months ago Chris and I were out to dinner and having a great time and a few drinks when we started talking about sex.